we're getting married!!

11.06.26

RSVP

a note to our guests

To our friends and family,

Welcome to our wedding site!

We love you all!! We know this wedding has been a quick turnaround, and we're so grateful to you all for getting on board with our craziness. Both Jared and I feel overwhelmed by the love, support, and encouragement we've felt from each of you.

Our lives have been shaped and molded by Jesus through every one of you, in every different season. We are so grateful to have you celebrate with us, and we can't wait to start this new season knowing we'll have each of you by our side.

From our parents who held us on day 1, to our siblings who pushed us to be better people, to our grandparents, aunts, and uncles who have loved us from the very start. From the parent-like figures who welcomed us into their families when we were far from home, to our childhood and college best friends who have joined us on every adventure and left us with countless stories, and to our coworkers who became dear friends.

Each one of you marks a special part of our lives, and we are so grateful. Thank you for loving us deeply and being a part of our story.

Now let's party!!

With love,

Hannah and Jared

And above all these put on love, which binds everything together in perfect harmony.

colossians 3:14

ceremony

4:00 pm

generation church
1106 Whaley Street
Oceanside, CA 92054

cocktail hour

5:00 pm

light snacks and drinks
el camino country club
3202 Vista Way
Oceanside, CA 92056

reception

6:00 pm

el camino country club
3202 Vista Way
Oceanside, CA 92056

our story

On August 2nd, 2025, Jared had a graduation party. Jared's cousin Corey brought his girlfriend at the time (now fiancé, woohoo!!) Elyse, to the party. Within minutes of meeting Jared, Elyse asked him if he was single. Jared was, indeed, single. He probably hadn't spoken to a girl in months.

Elyse then asked Jared what his type was. He simply said, "Outgoing and adventurous."

Elyse immediately thought of Hannah.

At the time, Jared was living in Newbury Park, while Hannah was living in downtown Santa Barbara. Jared thought it would be smart and safe to meet halfway for their first date in Ventura. However, his friend Tiare convinced him to drive all the way to Santa Barbara to pick her up.

So, on August 14th, Jared drove up to Santa Barbara and took Hannah to Lily's Tacos. From there, they started walking. And walking. And walking.

They ended up walking about six miles all around the beach, boardwalk, pier, and harbor. At one point, they had made a full loop back to the pier, and Jared thought maybe the date was coming to an end. Pointing down the street, he asked, "Is Lily's this way?"

Hannah said, "Yes… but we can keep walking this way."

Jared was stoked to keep the date going.

They continued walking around the harbor and eventually made their way through downtown Santa Barbara. At one point, Hannah asked, "Would you make fun of me if I told you I had a Monopoly Deal in my purse?"

They found a table next to a pizza brewery and sat down to play. This was the first time the competitive spirit came out in both Jared and Hannah.

Jared won the first game.

They never played again.

Not long after, some of Hannah's Westmont friends approached them on the bench. Jared recognized two of them, including an old friend he had grown up with in Malibu. The guys said they were heading to a karaoke bar and invited Hannah and Jared to join.

Jared had previously told Hannah about his extensive karaoke career at the prestigious university known as Dordt. He had performed a wide range of songs, with his favorite being "Break Stuff" by Limp Bizkit. However, he decided that might not be the most appropriate song to perform on a first date.

So, Jared and Hannah walked over to the bar together. Somewhere along the way, they both felt like they had been dating each other forever.

Jared begged Hannah to sing with him on stage, but she chickened out. So Jared and his buddy took the stage and sang "Party in the U.S.A." by Miley Cyrus.

Hannah may not have gotten on stage, but she had no problem supporting Jared from the audience, screaming at him to "SING LOUDER!"

Jared immediately walked off the stage and gave Hannah a side hug. It was awesome.

They said their goodbyes to the boys and left together. It was around 11:00 p.m., and they both had work the next morning. Jared drove Hannah back to her house and walked her up to the front porch.

Hannah, with her usual eagerness, asked, "Are you around this weekend?"

Jared said, "Yes."

And that was the beginning of Hannah and Jared.

wedding party

bridesmaids

each in her own shade

  • Kaya DeSoto

    maid of honor · sister of the bride

  • Karis Hughes

    sister of the groom

  • Kalie DeSoto

    sister-in-law of the bride

  • Brooklyn DeSoto

    sister-in-law of the bride

  • Reyna Huff

    friend of the bride

  • Emily Huff

    friend of the bride

  • Ashley Kytlica

    friend of the bride

  • Sarah McKenzie

    friend of the bride

  • Bridget Hoth

    friend of the bride

  • Michelle Jee

    friend of the bride

groomsmen

in black suits

  • Jake Hughes

    best man · brother of the groom

  • Isaac DeSoto

    brother of the bride

  • PJ DeSoto

    brother of the bride

  • Ivan Richter

    future brother-in-law of the groom

  • Chase Kelly

    friend of the groom

  • Finn Kelly

    friend of the groom

  • Diego Franco

    friend of the groom

  • Trevor Bennett

    friend of the groom

  • Diogo Fernandez

    friend of the groom

  • Buddy Mulder

    friend of the groom

  • Jordan Wilson

    friend of the groom

travel

the seabird ocean resort & spa

oceanside, ca

steps from the sand and the oceanside pier, the most beautiful stay in town.

website

springhill suites oceanside beach

oceanside, ca

beachside suites with an ocean view pool and free breakfast, a practical favorite.

website

best western plus oceanside palms

oceanside, ca

budget friendly with a pool, hot tub, and breakfast, a short hop from the waterfront.

website

flights

fly into either airport:

  • san diego international (SAN)

    about 40 minutes south of oceanside

  • john wayne · orange county (SNA)

    about 55 minutes north of oceanside

dress code

semi formal attire

our colors

blue
green
burnt orange
mauve
yellow

we're leaning into colorful fall shades, so pull from these if you'd like, or wear whatever makes you feel most like yourself.

for the ladies

long dresses or jumpsuits encouraged, with heels, wedges, or flats

for the gentlemen

button down shirts, suits. tie optional

feel free to bring an extra pair of shoes to dance in!

registry

Thank you for walking with us through our lives and relationship. Your presence at our wedding is our greatest gift. But if you'd like to help set us up for the first year of marriage, here are some ways to do so. We love you!

furniture fund

help us furnish our first home together!

contribute

honeymoon fund

help us save for our honeymoon!

contribute

gifts

a few things from our amazon registry.

view registry

q + a

How do I RSVP?

Right here on the site! Head to the RSVP tab, enter the name on your invitation, and let us know if you can make it.

When should I RSVP by?

Please respond by October 2, 2026 so we can plan seating and dinner with everyone counted.

What if my plans change after I RSVP?

No problem at all. Just submit the RSVP form again and we will use your most recent answer, or text us at (562) 382-3244.

When should we arrive?

Please plan to arrive by 3:30. That gives everyone half an hour to park, find a seat, and settle in before the ceremony begins at 4:00.

Will there be parking?

Yes, both the church and the country club have designated parking on site.

Where should we stay?

Check out the Travel section for our favorite places nearby, from beachfront resorts to budget friendly stays.

Can I bring a plus one?

We wish we could host everyone, but space is limited, so we can only accommodate the guests named on your invitation. Thank you for understanding!

Are kids invited?

We adore your little ones, but our celebration will be adults only. If there is an exception, it will be named on your invitation.

What should I wear?

Semi formal attire! See the Dress Code section for more details.

Where are you registered?

Everything lives in the Registry section, including our funds and our Amazon list.

What about dietary restrictions?

The RSVP form has a spot to tell us about allergies or dietary needs, and we will make sure you are taken care of.